Following a separation, parties usually work together to negotiate and resolve their family law property and parenting disputes. What do you do, however, if the other party puts their head in the sand and won’t respond to your attempts to negotiate?
Engaging a family law solicitor to write to the other party on your behalf can be a good way to get the other party’s attention and let them know you’re serious about progressing the matter. It can also help to place them on notice about the consequences of failing to properly engage, including the matter ending up in Court.
If there are aspects of your dispute that need immediate action, such as a child being at risk or a property that is about to be repossessed by the bank, you may need to make an urgent Application to the Court, rather than trying to engage with the other party through correspondence. If this applies to you, it is important that you get family law advice as soon as possible.
Application to the Court
If the other party continues to refuse to engage with you, you can then make an Application to the family law courts setting out the Orders you seek to resolve the matter, and seeking the matter proceed on an ‘undefended’ basis if the other party doesn’t engage. This means that you are asking the Court to make a final decision without the other party’s evidence or input.
You will need to satisfy the Court that the other party has been served with your Application and is on notice about the proceedings. You will also need to give evidence to the Court about your attempts to engage the other party, and their refusal to engage with you.
The Court will not want to make Orders without hearing both parties’ side of the story, and (depending on the dispute) will make sure the other party is given ample opportunity to respond and file documents setting out the Orders they seek, and why.
Final Undefended Orders
If the Court is satisfied that the other party is on notice about your Application, and that they are refusing to engage with the process, the Court will still need to be satisfied that the Final Orders you seek are in the best interests of the children (parenting matters) or just and equitable (property matters). You can’t win ‘by default’ because the other party isn’t engaging.
Failing to put all of the relevant evidence before the Court may mean the Judge is unable to be satisfied that the outcome you are seeking is fair and appropriate, and may result in further delays in reaching a final outcome. Sometimes, the Judge will require you to give oral evidence in Court as part of their consideration of the matter.
Getting detailed family law advice and assistance in filing your Application will help ensure that all of the relevant evidence, such as expert evidence about property values or about the history of the children’s care arrangements, is put before the Court and explained to the Judge.
If you would like to discuss your matter and how we can assist you, please contact us today on (02) 6225 7040 by email info@rmfamilylaw.com.au or get started now online.